Looking back at my childhood I try to look at the days my mum and dad made us stay in and do nothing, watch tv because they couldn't be bothered to go out or they were too tired from working all week, or it had been raining and they didn't want me getting dirty...
Then I remember we didn't have any days like this!
Growing up we were always out and about or playing with our parents, either riding our bikes in the garden, or out as a family, going on days on a boat or to the park or swimming... No matter what we were always doing something and always having fun.
My parents were very orientated on me and my sister, if we were playing in the garden they would be there with us... I remember playing in the swimming pool in the garden with my dad and riding my bike around with him, mum would play with my teddys with me and even put on a birthday party for one of my dolls once!
We did things that me and my sister wouldn't want to do, like go and look at airplanes or war museums but it would always turn out fun! And we owed them really for sitting through a barbie and barney concert!
When people ask me about Disney films or old tv shows my reply is 90% of the time no I haven't seen that, and they always say I was a deprived child... But how on earth they can say that is beyond me! Who wants to sit inside watching tv when their parents want to play with them and take them out!
I was such a Tom boy growing up, which I'm sure my dad loved, I would always be in the mud playing with worms and making fish and chips with stones and worms and playing football and riding my bike and playing in water and it was the best times of my life!
When I look at the parent I want to be.. its for my children to look back at their childhood and say that they can only remember days out and fun with their mum and dad... Bike rides, haven holidays, camping, days out to the beach, walking up mountains, playing in dirt, going to the beach, driving all the way to Wales just for a chippy or all the way to stoke just to go to water world... Every single year for my birthday without fail because that's what I wanted to do!
Every parent worrys they won't be good enough, but as long as my children have the same childhood that me and my sister did then I will have done a pretty damn good job!
My parents deserve medals for bringing us up with all the fun they did because it's only now that I realise how hard it is to do things all the time with your children and also I feel for the amount of people who don't get to spend time with their kids!
I will be an amazing mum to my children. I might not always get it right but I will always try and will always turn to my parents for help because now they get to be amazing grand parents instead 😊
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